Thursday, December 22, 2011

Gender-Neutral Equivalents to Boyfriend/Girlfriend

pastthestorm:

significantfigs:

transcending-anatomy:

Obviously, this is an incomplete list. 

  • Paramour
  • Significant Other/SO
  • Genderfriend
  • Lover
  • Sweetie/Sweetheart
  • Partner
  • Cuddle buddy
  • Soul mate
  • Steady
  • [name]friend
  • Mate
  • personfriend

I personally love “main squeeze.”

I will only ever say “sweetie” in a British accent per River Song.

I have been referring to my hypothetical eventual sweetie as “queerfriend,” as in when I have a queerfriend we can double date with my two fave married couples all the time and life will be wonderful.

I’m trying to imagine the reaction if I went around introducing/talking about my SO as my “soulmate” in casual conversation.

My mom and I are fond of “potential life partner.” Not necessarily always applicable, but hey. She also likes to refer to my SO as her “future ex-son-in-law,” so there’s that.

Notes

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  6. somechattybroad reblogged this from ghostingalone and added:
    ^THIS. Been trying to think up similar words myself for ages but have never found a list.
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  9. krystle-hunt reblogged this from apocalypsepony and added:
    means…the above.also,...boyfriends/girlfriends.[name]friendhi
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  12. h34rken reblogged this from xyxrebellion and added:
    Oh my god I love this, it’s so cute.
  13. yeastydaysofyesterdaysrevolution reblogged this from burritofriend and added:
    Sweetie is my favorite one to use.
  14. victor-the-richter reblogged this from breakthebinary
  15. edieth3owl reblogged this from fuckyeahfeminists and added:
    Here’s another one: Permanent Sex Partner (a better PSP, not by Nintendo ;P)
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  19. surrealthemuse reblogged this from sexxxisbeautiful and added:
    list. I was trying to come up...we couldn’t think of nearly this many.
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  21. fairyfellermasterstroke reblogged this from jenerally and added:
    I think the term ‘plus-one’ could possibly work as well.
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